Day 304

Happy Halloween to all of you out there that celebrate this American holiday. When I was younger, I used to dress up and trick or treat, and I have some wonderful memories of doing so. It is a tradition that my mom makes chili every Halloween. One year, after trick or treating, my sister and I gave our hard earned candy to children who did not have any.

To all of you going door to door for candy, or going to parties to celebrate, please be safe and responsible. Do not let one night change your life forever. With that being said, young or old, make some great memories today, because at the end of the day, that is what life is about- making memories and having people around you to share those memories with you. 

Day 303

I saw this in a locker at the gym yesterday and thought this was a great pay it forward!!

Day 302

http://www.xolxol.ph/2014/10/emergency-hotline-911-receives-pizza-order-from-lady-who-needs-help.html?m=0

This is a great story!! The 911 operator could have saved her life. He was intuitive and read between the lines. He did not take the situation lightly and handled the situation with concern and professionalism.

Day 301

http://themetapicture.com/if-this-video-doesnt-convince-you/

I think this video is eye opening. I think the message and content is valuable. I think change is always a good thing; however, in the regards to technology and communication, we must not forget the fundamentals of proper and polite communication. Most of us were raised with it being rude to sit on the phone at dinner, so why do we do it now? Most of us were raised to look at people in the eye when you are talking to them, so why are we so self consumed on our phones when we are carrying another conversation? Why as a society to do place more value on virtual communication as opposed to old school face to face interaction. As I think it is a great thing to evolve with the  new innovations, I also think it is just as important, if not more, to make sure we do not forget the fundamentals and our sole purpose in life. Because at the end of the day, without other humans, we would not be here. 

Day 300

Today is day 300 of my blog! I cannot believe we only have 65 days left! As I always say, let's make these the best yet! To sum up the past 300 days so far, I think it is best to be compassionate, kind, and always treat others as you would like to be treated. 

In the end, you will not be remembered by what you have, but by the people and lives you touched. 

Day 299

I often go to the same Victoria's Secret because the staff at this one specific store is very friendly and they put the customer first. They will go above and beyond to make sure I am happy and leave with what I was looking for. This type of specialized care is the reason why I continue to shop at this specific one. I always put in a good word with the manager when someone helps me. 

I think in this day and age, many people like to complain over something that did not go well, but when something does go well, they expect it, rather than appreciate it and go out of their way to put in a good word with the manager. I think it is reasonable to complain if something went wrong, but also try to counteract your complaint with something that went right. If you are shopping and notice someone is going out of their way to help you, try to put in a great word with their manager. That short minute of your time will go a long way. 

Day 298

My friend and I went to Chilis yesterday and the server was very nice. When my friend paid the bill, he said something that resonated. He said I'm going to give him an extra tip and hopes he pays it forward. He deserves it and I think it is important to point out a great attitude at work. 

I thought this was a very sweet and simple gesture. We have all struggled in our own way, whether that is financially or emotionally, so it was considerate of my friend to realize and acknowledge hard work. 

Day 297

My best friend and her husband are going through a hard time financially with medical bills and a few people I know have donated twenty-five dollars and some have even donated a hundred dollars to her and her husband. When my friend told me, I felt so happy to have such generous friends to do something else for someone in time of need, especially because some of the people who donated do not even know her, or only know her from high school ten years ago, or only know her through me and the fact they are all praying and thinking of her and her husband is very touching. 

Day 296

Why do people feel compelled to make fun of overweight people. There is nothing wrong with them. I know a few people who are very close to me that have struggled with their weight for their whole life. I feel sad for them that they are not comfortable in their own skin. The most important thing is that society does not make it even harder for them. Do not make fun of overweight people. In addition, do not make fun of anyone. Do not bully the underdog. Be kind to everyone. It sounds cliche, but it will make the world a happier and better place. 

Day 295

I went to Miami last year with my best friend and I remember that trip so vividly for a few reasons- I met so many genuinely nice people. I still keep in touch with many of them and I often reflect back to that trip. That trip was life changing for me and it helped me realize that there are many great people in the world- you just have to get out of your comfort zone and explore. It is when you step outside your familiarity, that you find greatness in the world, and in yourself. 

Day 294

One of my best friends and her husband have been faced, very early on, to deal with something life changing. My heart goes out to them and their beautiful little daughter. As a society, we hear these kinds of stories, but it sometimes does not resonate until it hits home. Life is very short and you never know what will happen. Life is precious. Never take your life, health, family, or loved ones for granted. There are people out there fighting for theirs. I am a big believer in that a little goes a long way. Please keep them in your thoughts and prayers. 

http://www.gofundme.com/perrault

Day 293

I went to this Mexican restaurant in Los Angeles called El Coyote and parked on the street. I put all the change I had in my wallet into the meter, but I did not have enough. I asked this lady walking past me if she had a few quarters and she happily gave me two quarters. I thought this was such a nice thing that she did for me and I was tremendously appreciative. 

Day 292

My friend is doing a compliment challenge, in which she has decided to compliment one person a day via text message or Facebook message. It consists of a sweet compliment of a personalized memory or seen gesture from each individual person. She will focus complimenting a person's inner being as opposed to their looks. We all know what makes a person beautiful is their heart, but in this digital and technological world we live in, many people find reassurance and self worth from pictures; it is refreshing to see another person focus on what's inside. I think what my friend is doing is a great way to spread love and kindness in a genuine and personalized way!

Day 291

I approached this lady who was sitting alone and asked her how her day was going. She was brief. I asked her another question and she slowly started to open up. I found out that her husband had just died couple months prior and she just moved down to Los Angeles. I know this is a part of life but I felt so bad for her. I talked to her a little while longer and then she went on her way. I am so glad I spent some time talking to her because she obviously was in a sad mood and needed someone to talk to. You never know what battle someone is internally fighting, so always be kind. 

Day 290

I read this post on Facebook: help a random stranger smile today; create a new friend and share a positive gesture. I'm certain it will bring you great joy!

Day 289

I witnessed for a far this young girl who went out of her way to hold a door open for a very old lady with a walker. I thought this very sweet. Always try to go out of your way for others. This easy and kind gesture went a long way! 

Day 288

It is always important to put yourself in the other persons shoes. When you can be sensitive and understanding towards another person and their needs, then you will see a more complete representation of any given situation. Always be kind and compassionate, because you never know what internal battle someone is going through.

Day 287

A mother said that her proudest moment of her child surpasses all honor roll and soccer goals, but it was when he received a certificate of merit award for true empathy and genuine kindness. He engages daily acts of kindness, such as helping an autistic child tie their shoes. 

What a great boy who will turn into a great young man. He was raised well and I was very happy to read this story! 

Day 286

I saw this banner and had to take a picture of it! It is very true: give more than you take!!

Day 285

Happy birthday to a very special person in my life. We have not known each other for years on out, nor do we have a million memories (yet) but it was one of those things that we got close quickly and it was definitely obvious that we are meant to be in each other's lives. I wish him nothing but the best today and always! Happy birthday! May all your wishes come true!! 

Day 284

When you are the new person to a group, it is always nice when others are welcoming and patient with you. I think that is key to building a foundation based on patience, understanding, and acceptance. I experienced this recently and I am appreciative for the open arms welcome. Try to put yourself in another person's shoes and when you see someone who is new to a group, go out of your way to make them feel welcomed! A little goes a long way! 

Day 283

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=X7ymriMhoj0&feature=youtu.be

This young man is so inspirational. He is full of life, energy, enthumahsim, and positivity. If everyone thought like this, the world would be a happier and less stressed out place! I wish him nothing but the best and hope he goes very far in life! 

Day 282

I received this the other day: 

The coolest thing just happened...So I'm studying my flash cards at Starbucks and this guy in scrubs walks in.. Stands in line and while waiting this black guy is standing right next to him in line. He looks at him and takes a 2nd look.. And asks the guy in scrubs.. "Did you go to the university of Michigan?" The guy in scrubs replies, "yes". The guy then says "I think you birthed my baby there". The guy in scrubs smiles (bc as all medical professionals know you never remember patients after they leave) and before he could respond, the guy adds "she the one with the heart surgery" and the doc replies "oh yes! I remember, she was my first one!" They start talking details about the surgery and how the little girl is doing. How crazy and what a small world for these two ppl to meet in a Starbucks in San Diego, far away from Michigan! I just thought it was the coolest thing and so heartfelt!! 

This is such a cool story. I was so happy to read this. 

Day 281

http://elitedaily.com/news/world/cop-buys-car-seat-mom-pulled-over/788789/

This is a wonderful story! I think, depending on the scenario, some police officers give other police officers a bad rap; however, just because they are wearing the same uniform does not make them all bad people. Each person, regardless of gender, ethnicity, race, and occupation, will act differently, so do not assume all people in a specific group are the same way! There are many great human beings out there!

Day 280

http://www.viralnova.com/lion-and-rescuer/?mb=pd

My mom is an animal lover and she shared this video. I think it is remarkable and touching that this beastly lion remembered who saved his life. What a great story of a lady doing a wonderful thing! 

Day 279

I was at restaurant and I saw two people sitting at a table for four in the bar. A party of four starts walking around looking for an open table and the only thing left was a table for two. They decide to take it and squeeze. Both the two table were right next to each other and as the party of four were getting settled, the party of two asked if they would like to switch so they can have their table of four and the couple will take the table for two. They accepted thankfully and they all switched tables. I thought this was a nice gesture. It was nice to see the couple was aware of their surroundings and helped out strangers on a very busy Saturday night. 

Day 278

It was the Jewish holiday called Yom Kippur, the day of atonement, in which you reflect and ask for forgiveness of your sins and wrong doings. This year was my first time fasting (I normally do not). In reflection, for anyone I have wronged or hurt, I am truly sorry.

I think it is always important to treat others as I would like to be treated! 

Day 277

My parents were driving and while parked at the light, they saw a homeless man holding a sign that said he was at the bottom and needed help. My dad gave him money and told him to make good decisions with the money. The man said yes he will and smilied and thanked my parents.

Day 276

The other day, I was driving home and these two police officers were waiting at a light next to me. They were looking at me and smiling so I rolled down my window and said hello. They then asked me how my day and night was going and complimented me. Then they said to drive safe and get home safely because there are people out there who care about me. I told them that they were very nice and to have a good night as well. 

I was very caught off guard by this because most police officers are not as friendly when waiting for a light. I think this goes to show that you cannot generalize one specific group of people. Everyone is different and everyone carries themselves differently-always remember that. 

Day 275

My friend went out of his way to get photoshop for this little boy that he met because the little boy's family could not afford the software system of photoshop. 

What a nice good deed! My friend said he knew the little boy would thrive and succeed using the software, so he gave the tools to the little kid to make that possible. 

Day 274

"The best kind of people are the ones who come into your life and make you see the sun where you once saw clouds. The people that believe in you so much that you start to believe in yourself. The people who love you for simply being you. The once in a lifetime kind of people".   

Be appreciative to the people in your life that have proven they are meant to stay in your life. Those are the ones that will save you!